All By Myself

With today being Valentine's Day, it would seem odd that my thought for the week is about being by ourselves. But actually, it makes it even more potent, just like the elixir that exists on Cupid's arrow.

My question for the week is-How much time do you spend each day alone? Not with the radio on whilst you're driving, or lounging in front of the TV, but simple being in the act of sitting quietly...just you.

And then you might ask the question...why is this important? Good question. When we get to a place where we are completely at ease and accepting of who we are, with all of our unique imperfections, where we hold our own hearts in gentle compassion we can then begin to truly express this same feeling to all others.

My thought for the week has been prompted by the upcoming yoga retreat I'm holding in Idyllwild in April. It's a time that is cut out of our daily busy lives, where we have the opportunity to hear our own inner voice, with no interruption or distraction. Women who have attended in the past have had many challenges and obstacles in getting there in the first place...kids, finances, travel, other obligations...things that initially might have screamed "NO", you really can't afford to go. But, many did find a way. They would all tell you that it was worth it as by feeding their own soul, they returned to all of the original objections with greater love, peace and appreciation.

I know that when we returned from our 9-day yoga retreat in Australia in October of 2009, even with me teaching the retreat, the residue from its impact lasted for almost three months. THREE MONTHS!! Through the feeling of unplugging, looking after my well-being on all levels of body, mind and spirit, I was able to hold onto that for weeks post-retreat.

You can too. Look into your heart and see if it's asking you to take some time for yourself. Not only to serve your own higher good, but those of others. It's an investment of energy that will continue to resonate well after the retreat has finished.